Its been over a month and a half now and I feel so bullied. I have been civil with my ex since I left him for beating for the last time. Now things was rocky all through the battle . his dad just recently Came back into his life 3months ago , he keeps saying hes gonna call the cops on me if my son isnt with him at 1pm we do have a court order im just wondering Clearly youre looking for a way to run a scam. I cant afford 4000 fora lawyer.. Him and his brother live in a little camper shell type mini RV. Said it never happened and she pressed charges on me saying I was at her house trying to jump her ? Would you yourself want to be that child that was released from your care to only be beaten, yelled at , ignored or possibly killed by another individual hat you have been repeatedly told was your mother or father? Wants to use visitation to control me. Who claimed to have seen me and laid the papers on the front porch and left. I know that my ex husband is unable to provide for our two sons, but I also know he would fight my request to the courts for relocation. Are you willingly going along with what hes demanding? In a supervised exchange, a neutral third party is present to shepherd the handoff. Do you have a child or children or a niece or nephew or any child period that you would die for? Your email address will not be published. My sons father is a minister, it makes me sad that his congregation doesnt know what a monster he and his mother truly are. I wish we had help. Are you holding your childs hand at doctor appointments, and paying the $35 copay? I cannot get it out of my head. And she sold our house,never gave me my share,move far away,lied. We have a Court Ordered Parenting plan. And I dont like him being over there with his new wifes son who has been abbusive to my son and has been kicked out of many schools. Will I get in trouble by the court for withholding him? Ok i need help asap . It is very unfortunate he isnt answering his phone or returning your calls but there is no law stating he has to answer or call back but there are laws in place for not following the visitation schedules it will be considered kidnapping if you dont take the child or have someone else take the child or offer for the child to be picked up from your house ir when you arrive at work. And heaven forbid she start dating or have a boyfriend, isnt that his problem who pays his damn water bill then? If your ex or soon to be ex violates the court orders, make sure you document all of the particulars and notify your lawyer as soon as practically possible. We are from MS, and they have joint right now with her being primary because we live 2 hours away from her. As for me I will always have PTSD for the rest of my life. Here why and at this piont i dont want to do the wrong thing. I even bought my son a cell phone and of course his grandmother took it. She lives very far away and her accusations have no groundingthey are heresay I have sent mean texts but not threatening. Courts dont enforce contempt and dont hold anyone accountable. Until my sons behaviour condition got worse, as he got older he realised he wanted to live with me, which is natural I am his parent . If he was doing all that physical abuse you would have had the evidence to put him in jail. Why cant they join the clubs they want to, or attend the summer camps their friends are going to? Do you know how many $39 boxes of diapers and $12 boxes of wipes a toddler goes through in year? The court order says in even numbered years the children will be with me from dec 24 to Jan 1 at 7pm. I wasnt upset about not being with my husband at all although I felt bad for the kids a little, but they were so young and didnt notice his absence all too much. Please try again. A Motion to Enforce tells the court that the opposing party has failed to comply with the child custody order and is unreasonably denying you visitation. After officers made entry, police said a 43-year-old man shot at police, who returned fire and called in a SWAT unit. How do I go about not sending her anymore what do I do ?Now when he is ready to be a dad he flosses that support order around.. Not to mention he owes me like 10,000 back pay he doesnt pay his child support.. What do I do???? Even divorcing parties that are able to resolve financial or other serious issues amicably sometimes find that the discussion about child custody and visitation can become a point of contention. I have no hard feelings towards him whatsoever, I just want to do everything I can to provide for my children. So why wouldnt any other circumstance as dad be valid? You dont need a lawyer. Transactions involving firearms, firearms parts, ammunition or explosives. Better get your butt back to court. Im moving to Mississippi. Just over two years ago my ex came to me and said she would like to do one week on, and one week off with the kids and in exchange she would have the child support halted. Please help me out! Kids are allowed to call dad anytime. Violence or disagreement among parents during a child custody exchange is never in the "best interest of the child," and should therefore be avoided both to protect the child and the parents' interests. But when we got there 4 or 5 men beat us in the car. Sergeant Justin Hess of the Hummelstown Borough Police Department remarked, Can she even get in trouble for that? I think n think n think while I witness dawn become dusk n dusk become dark black empty night then it turns to dawn again right infront of these eyes. Giana Messore licensed in AR only Little Rock, AR. Also she is now performing solo sex webcam shows from her home, although she claims not to do it when he is there. The judge ordered her to give me kids for thanksgiving week,and Christmas 2 weeks. As matter of fact, they live with my ex mother and shes the one who takes care of and has all the say over my son right now. FREE BACKGROUND INFORMATION AVAILABLE UPON REQUEST. My best advice to all of you is. Have a restraining order from another girl can that be used against me? we dont know what to do anymore, is there something legal that we can do? Being a police officer and a divorced dad I can give some advise. I give additional accommodated days and try to work out a reasonable schedule . Do you know the names of your childs friends, and how many play dates do you host at your house weekly, going through 3 $5 boxes of snacks in a couple hours? And youve got needs too. Wants to change it every week to accommodate his drama. Can my ex restart the child support even after two years of it being off? Now Christmas comes about she wants to have my daughter for the holiday cool no problem now she not trying to give her back . He wont allow it. One day my sons grandmother (dads mom) picked my son up, made fun of me because due to an illness and months in the hospital I temporarily need a walker, she then belittled in front of my son she then took my crying son and left my home. I am afraid one day I will be arrested and my son will see me hauled off in handcuffs.what can I do? I am going through the same thing and iy sucks. Hi my name is Alex I got joint custudy and placement of my Kids my Kids mom not suppose to take my Kids to her house and she continued to do it I already file papers again but what I can do in the mean time. L.J. In one occasion we got into arguement and moved out of his house told him I was leaving to Florida to be by my family side. So trust me dads, these Courts go against Good moms too. 2 The mother has left the house regardless of your information to pick up the kids (must have this proof in writing) Are you doing these things, and if given the chance, could you do these things 24/7? If they had any friends or social groups you could attempt to approach them as a family friend or whatever you think to be good. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); THIS IS AN ATTORNEY ADVERTISEMENT. Ive went to mediation 3 times and shes never suffered any kinds of repercussions for her actions. Think before responding. We have a court date for my objection on August 15 2017. Your ex is going to start alienating your child from you. She filed all kinds of harassment charges on her husband and told us not to let her husband talk to us or the child , if he did let her know because she had a restraining order against him, for her and her two kids . If you have any questions about pick up and drop off times, and locations for the transfer of custody between you and your children's other parent you can reach me at 844-431-3380 or via e-mail using the e-mail contact form. However, in our experience, when my husbands ex kept his kids on our weekend, we called the police and her boyfriend was there to refuse to give them to us. Violating Child Custody Orders: Should You Call The Police? The officer was responding to the area of Catherine and Savey streets around 12:18 a.m. for a report of shots fired and was immediately met by gunfire, according to a report from Allegheny County police. All I want to do is protect my Little girl from this maniac but am unable to fix the damage already done to my daughter. A week an half later I get a call from the school telling me that my children are being taken by an unnamed person. I have done everything since day 1. Additional Public Prosecutor Amit Sahni, representing the state, sought direction the Gaur couple to pay Rs 10,64,055.He said the matter requires larger consideration as prayers for custody parole on behalf of undertrial prisoners are considered by district courts beyond the normal prescribed period of six hours, as per Delhi Prison Rules, 2018. Dont give up. Dear God my child will be an adult thinking I dont love her enough to co tact her before this is over. The rest of the world might take your side, they might reassure you when you fish for attention on social media, that you are doing the best you can. Sometimes calling the police makes things worse but that will be a decision you will have to make. In Brazil it is illegal. Me and my father raised them for over three years without any help from her. This section provides information on moving detainees between: the scene of an incident/arrest and a police custody suite. my daughter mother veronica k. Bennett lost custody of trinity amor whittington in court back in 08/2015. Dont understand why people cant just communicate and get over the temporary emotions because it makes a permanent effect in the childrens lifes. Heres my suggestion. He went to family court and file a court order so I wont leave buffalo NY with our daughter, so I decided not to leave. MY CHILDREN REPORTED ABUSE NO ONE HELPING MY HOUSE BEEN ROBBED DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CONSTANTLY. Theres little sympathy for a former abuse victim. I know of a situation where her ex is a complete loser, he does not care one bit what the kids want, they sit quietly while visiting him, he does weird sexual things in front of them, they have told him they do not want to visit him but he tells them he does not care what they want, he refuses to take the teens to their games/practice or other activities while they are on his time. Try to get an emergency custody order before he does. My boyfriends sons mother. Please dont let it go 5 or more years like I did. Its been a problem everytime I go over to pick up or drop the kids off. Rips my innocent daughter from my arms and when I reach for her he uses her body as a weapon against me. Document everything about the incident, times, witnesses the officers on the scene etc. Well last night she told my husband it would be 3 weeks before they had her so called apartment fixed ( we do not believe she has one ) and for him to stay with us. Dont play power trips with your ex. This is a huge help to the officers when they respond. At FindLaw.com, we pride ourselves on being the number one source of free legal information and resources on the web. Couldnt you have filed for emergency custody? We have proof she lied on stand . There have been multiple examples of child custody exchanges ending badly, often in tragedy. Only three showed up at the motel. I know I should have went to court and filed something letting them know he wasnt giving me my parenting time , but I was scared, we used to have a abuse relationship. The special guardian put a section 91 order against me for 3 years, not to put any application into court. So the child has been with us. If you have a court order that says overnights are allowed, then just ignore your ex and give him back your son when the overnight is over. She is obviously crying out for attention from me, that I havent been able to give her. you can file a motion to modify custody everything you would want to know is on line about it. When is the last time you trimmed tiny little fingernails? I just wanted to help stop the trend of thinking only custodial mothers alienate. If that is even a remote possibility I would not want to risk it. Defendant did not pay court costs or did not give an a way of relief. If raising your own children is such a burden, then sign custody over to the father and pay him child support instead. This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply. Learn more about FindLaws newsletters, including our terms of use and privacy policy. I went over there this morning and they wouldnt let me talk to him. Who is to say what a father or non-custodial parent does with their time and money when they have the children. Most of the time these problems occur when you are going through your divorce or are newly divorced. If your daughter had any medical conditions, hobbies , talents or love for sports etc. Much like Keiths story, I have a 3 year old son in which I have not seen since he was about 6 months old. Im going through this now, way more details and my ex husband is a known drug addict to the courts and is currently on Methadone. also please keep in Mind he does not live in the state in which we reside. I just wanted to reach out to you. Custody & child visitation cases are emotional, and a lawyer can seek the best outcome, A lawyer can help protect your children's interests, Lawyers can seek to secure visitation rights. So over the BS.. Spare all of us your woe is me diatribe. file a motion for custody and move somewhere else. Everyone knows youre a damn good father. Why isnt anyone being charged with it? Hi, I am married for almost 6 years and recently separated from my wife. May 27, 2014 1:08 pm Comments are closed. Myself, and two police officers saw a car coming up the driveway of her house. As discussed above, child custody is a difficult subject to negotiate and even after an agreement is reached, the child custody exchange can still be complicated. The court order states the child is to be with me on the 4th of July. In many cases, police officers might be unwilling to get involved in a family law dispute unless the conduct rises to a criminal infraction (i.e. How did the motion to enforce turn out? Keith I my self have been through the same exact problem. A work obligation? Our custody order is I get to see my two young boys every other weekend. Never mind the fact that youre underworking to be able to say you cant provide what you should. Im going through the same problem with my ex. We have a court date and mediation date coming up, so Im going to ask for things to be set straight again. My exs wife told me we are handling this today! When this happens, the child's environment may become hostile, unpleasant, and even physically and emotionally damaging (for example, with pushing, hitting, or name-calling in front of the kids). Visit our attorney directory to find a lawyer near you who can help. My trust in human kind is gone. The judges here in alabama are corrupt! My wifes ex has full custody recently he decided to let one of the girls age 11 move in with us . As a mother I suffer with all this and i cant force her to go, but under this circunstances i got no other choice but to keep her and shelter her is my duty as a mother to protect my child well been and her dad is only causing pain a griev with his behaivor. But that isnt the way the system works. Who are you to count what he/she does with that time and money? My ex wife and I were divorced a little more than 6 years ago, she was granted primary custody and I was granted secondary custody. Most of the time things get better when the dust settle and everybody falls into a post-divorce routine. WEN I FILED FOR INCREASE ON SUPPORT AFTER 15 YEARS YOU RETALIATEDRETALIATE BY FILING FOR SOUL CUSTODY SOUL PLACEMENT YET HE HASNT BEEN AROUND. I dont mean to be pesimistic, because I am going throught the same thing right this second. You can call the dispatcher and ask questions pertaining to what your decree says and any other questions that you can think of that your ex may rebuttal with. Detention and custody. I am now a shell of a person and a victim to the worst crime a parent and child could ever go through PARENTAL ALIENATION. The boys rarely stay overnight with their dad because he doesnt have a place of his own and has been staying on one of his friends couches. The chhsnce is always there be real come on now be honest its ok to agree with me and disagree. This pain of a million death everyday cant be bared anymore!!! Alberto Morales, 42, somehow obtained a sharp object and stabbed one of the officers once in the neck and three times in the back Monday night outside a Walmart in Grapevine, Texas, police said. they dont always, I let my kid go to his dad for45 day . Long story there. Unreal. Office in Ridgeland, MS. I was granted visitations through the courts and every time I saw my son his father always told me how long I could have with my son! She wants to see our son 3 weekends a month on Fridays and Saturdays. You might have perfected the image of successful, over-worked man with only the best interests of his children in mind. The email address cannot be subscribed. Its insulting to Dads that actually did more than 50 percent of what you are talking about during our marriages. No representation is made that the quality of the legal services to be performed is greater than the quality of legal services performed by other lawyers. Your childs father is doing what he knows is going to piss you off but at the same time isnt breaking the law. Whatever you wanna call it, it will help in your case for later. Do you suffer everyday missing your child? And I said, no your not, we have a child visitation order. Meeting with a lawyer can help you understand your options and how to best protect your rights. Its so you woman like you can play the I do everything card. And most of all its because you all know you are pocketing a majority of the inflated child support you are receiving and not spending it on the kids. Ive left most of my things there. Because of domestic violence. No one will help you or hold him accountable. Do you call the Dad and let him know that youre going to the doctors and they need his dad does it to six and study show that children without Dads are five times more likely to become on successful and high-risk pregnancies. SAFE. Dear father who wont pay child support, I think you know, deep inside, that youre wrong. She said, I dont care. Ignoring his tantrum is the very best thing you can do. I never know where my daughter is, whos taking care of her or whos gonna pick her up or drop her off. I dont know the for sure details about the comment you posted this too but let me ask you and anyone that agrees a couple questions and answer honestly Im not trying to argue I just want to know how people think these days. Not because youre legally obligated but because you are such a good guy lavishing your children with all you can spare, and youre doing all you can, and she should be grateful you even want to help, right? For school commuting, the parent who has care of the child at the time also has transport responsibility. Do you know what youre doing? When the jail authorities filed an application seeking direction to the two undertrial prisoners- Rahul Gaur and his wife Navneet Kaur- the son and daughter-in-law of real estate company Gaursons Chairman, to pay Rs 10,64,055 towards the salary of the escort staff deputed during the period of custody parole, as demanded by the 3rd Battalion of . And when you only have so much left after that, why should you send your money to help the mother of your child? I do not see people the same way anymore. The court will not likely advocate for you, in fact they will see you as a weak person if you dont do the right thing and come to court to enforce visitation. Why cant your children grow up with a mother who lives a comfortable life? Can you outline for me how the motion should read to compel the judge to act? However, reality- kids are with dad until mom decides not to let them go (after we just so happen to spend money buying tickets to an event for the kids), kids are not allowed to call dad AT ALL and dads number is blocked from contacting kids (kids stated to dad mommy said we cant call). It also provides information on vehicle selection and fleet management. You think thats bad, listen to this. I had to check myself into a out patient hospital. I have to move on with my life. I need to know what to do when the court fails to enforce a court judgement. Something has to be done to stop or prevent any parent from alienating the other for no good cause. So here goes . Parents dont think about the fact that they arent hurting each other with games they are hurting their child and in reality teaching them how to handle life when they grow up this another gen aeration if playing games instead of raising children. I actually agree the system is garbage and favors women. When is the last time you changed multiple sets of bedsheets at 4am with a screaming, crying child needing you to make them feel better? The man was taken into custody by . If you feel it necessary call the police and have the incident documented. Police will try to work toward a peaceful resolution on scene but dont expect a NC police officer to arrest just because little wasnt returned on time. No Im not a bad dad I help with many other things above child support. 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